How to Give Your Woman the BEST
Oral Sex She's Ever Had!
A Man's Guide Written by a Woman What men really need to know first is that oral sex is the holy grail of satisfying most women. The second thing they need to know is that most men don’t do it right. But cunnilingus performed well will endear you to a partner like nothing else can. So whether you're a seasoned muffdiver or you’re just starting out, here are a few tips that all men really need to know. What no Man may know, nor Woman tell....
Most women cannot orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Personally, this author believes that NO woman can. I’ve only met one woman in my lifetime that claims that she can and I think she’s lying. Female orgasms come from the clitoris (which happens to be the only organ in a human body whose sole function is pleasure). And female orgasms are often difficult to attain without the aid of a vibrator. (See our shopping list at right.) However, that being said, it IS possible for a woman to achieve orgasm from oral sex but only if the man truly knows what he’s doing and has the patience to do it right.
While not all women are alike, obviously, below are some simple tips that are certain to help you on your path to becoming a woman’s dream lover! - Be prepared with a little help on hand. Have some great tasting edible gel or lotion on hand. Not that she’s going to taste bad (most women shouldn’t) but it might help you last a little longer. A nice little variable speed vibrator is always a good idea too. (See shopping list at right)
- Lick her like an ice cream cone… Start with big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue. This will serve as a warm up and get her ready for more.
- Gradually Build Up. There really is no need to tongue inside her vagina unless you want to as part of the warm up. It really won’t do much good for her. But at this point you should start gradually increasing the attention to the clitoris itself.
- Insert a finger or two in her vagina while licking her clit. Curl those fingers up towards your tongue, capturing her clit and G Spot between your mouth and fingers. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers; get a rhythm going. You can make it even more exciting my using a G Spot vibrator or Dildo inside her.
- Let your lover straddle your face. If lying back during cunnilingus is too passive for her, let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact during oral sex. To make this position even more fun, get tied down to the bed before she mounts you using some Restraints and maybe she'll even boss you around with firm directives: "stick your tongue out!", "open your mouth!" "suck it boy", and so on.
- If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Most women climax in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. This is one of the most frustrating aspects of being a woman. So many times, men assume that because your pleasure is building, the you need them to do something more. This is the time NOT TO CHANGE A THING!!! Finding the time for consistency is the art to being an oral sex expert.
- Suck her into your mouth. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and downward pressure of most cunnilingus. While you've got a nice piece of her sucked in your mouth, lick it while maintaining the suction.
- Anal Stimulation. She may enjoy having a finger inserted anally during this time as well, or perhaps even both anus and vagina. Just make sure that the finger you use in the anus doesn’t go into the vagina without washing first!
- Keep it wet. The juicier your make it, the better it feels. Another reason to keep a good flavored lotion on hand.
How do you know if she likes it?
Look for more subtle signs of her enjoyment. If she raises her hips to meet your mouth, that is a very good sign. A lubricating vagina and swelling vulva and labia that spread open as they become engorged are a sure sign that she's responding favorably. So is a growing clitoris. An all over skin flush, rapid breathing, and writhing are clues. Clutching the sheets is excellent, and so are hands on the back of your head pushing. Many women will tighten the muscles of their calves as they approach orgasm. What does it really mean when a woman cries “DON’T STOP!” As we discussed above, it means literally don’t stop what you are doing at this very moment. Don’t change the pressure, location or rhythm of what you are doing. This seems to be very difficult for most men but if you master this talent, you’ll be a true master of the art of cunnilingus. Back to Learn More About... Guides to Better Sex |
